PinnedCharlie’s ToolboxHow men are using self-help to finesse womenYou’re a single girl dating and you have a general idea of the type of men you are meeting, but a new version has recently popped up. This…3 min read·Nov 9, 2020----
PinnedCharlie’s ToolboxLove Versuz Low Self-Esteem and ObsessionEvery day I hear new stories about women being flexible with their boundaries and subsequently exploited. Typically, I won’t blame women…3 min read·Oct 26, 2020--2--2
Charlie’s ToolboxHow to Decenter MenToday we are discussing my favorite subject. Decentering Men4 min read·Oct 15, 2021----
Charlie’s ToolboxHow to Stop Performing in relationships? (romantic and non-romantic)As heard on Ep. 23 of Charlie’s Toolbox Podcasts5 min read·Aug 27, 2021--1--1
Charlie’s ToolboxEpisode 13: Stop Worrying! It’s Just a Datefind the latest7 min read·Jun 23, 2021----
Charlie’s ToolboxI’m bad, ugly, and not good enough…how thought patterns ruin your dating experience.Some parents are shit. They are insecure, abused, and desire power and they use their children as vessels for their unhealed trauma…4 min read·May 20, 2021----
Charlie’s ToolboxRed flags Vs. FearWe’ve been hurt before, but as women, we are told it is our fault. So, we analyze every part of the relationship looking for the places…5 min read·Apr 4, 2021----
Charlie’s ToolboxBYour Authentic SelfOver the past year, I’ve been enamored by people who exist without requiring anyone’s approval. I looked at Issa Rae who though…6 min read·Mar 15, 2021----
Charlie’s ToolboxThe Case for Loving YourselfI watched part 3 of the Real Housewives of Potomac Reunion, I am late! I saw Gizelle on my screen again. I saw the physical weight of her…4 min read·Feb 8, 2021----
Charlie’s ToolboxUse anger & revenge wisely, then get to forgiveness.If you know my work, you know that I condone anger and revenge. I know a lot of people are surprised by this, but I think there is a place…5 min read·Feb 1, 2021----